I will not elaborate here on this matter, where various people have been exchanging opinions for several days on issues related to the job of being an adult film actress.
However, watching the exchange of opinions, which is more like a fight than a discussion, I would like to write down my own thoughts.
First of all, this issue should be resolved between the parties involved, and there is no need for a third party not directly involved to interject. At that point, the premise of the discussion seems to have collapsed.
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From this point on, we can talk in general terms.
When someone’s opinion differs from your own, saying to that person, “No, you’re wrong,” may be correct in some cases, but in many cases it is not the right approach.
Even if they are really wrong, the other person will say, “I’m not wrong.”
Since it is natural for people to think differently, there will very rarely be a clear-cut answer in almost every case. In other words, it is almost idealistic to think that it is natural to disagree and that we can agree to point this out.
Instead of saying to the other person, “That’s not true.” It is wise to say, “I see that you think so. ”
It is not the same as telling them to be patient or to compromise. Even if their opinion differs from yours, it is important to acknowledge that different opinions exist and to respect the other person’s opinion as well.
When someone points out your error, do you reflexively respond, “That’s not true”? If so, stop and think for a moment.
For my first and last favorite, Tsubaki Sannomiya.